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Growing up poor: 10/10
John D. Rockefeller sauce
People of poor backgrounds will actively develop their abilities because they urgently need to rescue themselves.
Boy ain’t this the truth.
I grew up in a trailer in Appalachia. Well below the poverty level.
In fact, I remember:
Only having 1 bag of freeze-dried ground beef in the house for food
Being 12 the first time I ever had new clothes, because I bought them for myself
My parents borrowed money from me when I was 13 (I had a lawn mowing business)
Even though this was tough, I had a good childhood. I’m certainly not complaining.
My parents were amazing. We were just poor.
Long story short, JDR is talking about me in this quote.
I learned early on that no one was coming to save me. If I was going to make anything out of this life, it would come from actively and urgently developing my skills.
The idea of optimalism started early on. I would have to be the optimal version of myself at each step of the way.
Opportunities were rare with my upbringing. So, I had to be ready when they showed up.
And in this way, I have been able to accomplish more than should have been possible:
1st generation college graduate
Executive-level position at tech company
Successful semi-professional music career in a large city
So don’t look at your circumstances as a handicap. See them as a superpower.
Use those superpowers to create your own reality, and prove the universe wrong.
Get some.
Swanagan
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